the reason for God: chapter twelve

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This is the twelfth post in a 15-week study. More information and resources can be found here.

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The Reason for God – Chapter Twelve: The (True) Story Of The Cross

“The primary symbol of Christianity has always been the cross,” begins Chapter Twelve. (p. 193) Keller goes on to say that what we as Christians see as Good News – the Gospel – our society views as difficult at best and horrific at worst. “In the Christian account, Jesus dies so that God can forgive sins. For many, that seems ludicrous or even sinister,” according to Keller. (p. 194) Society is okay with good news but the idea of a good God causing injury and death to his own son is too far from their normative belief of what constitutes good. Apparently some believe the cross even moves from questionable to evil, “While the Christian doctrine of the cross confuses some people, it alarms others.” (p. 194)

So, Keller asks, “Why did Jesus have to die?” (p. 194)

The First Real Reason: Real Forgiveness Is Costly Suffering

Keller runs through an illustration of how someone who damages your property with a car would either have to pay for the damage caused, or you would. In other words, there is a cost when someone has been wronged. Keller says it, “When we are seriously wronged we have an indelible sense that the perpetrators have incurred a debt that must be dealt with.” (p. 195)

When someone has been wronged and a debt has been incurred, there are only two responses — and both require a payment.

The first option is to have the perpetrator(s) pay. “You can withhold relationship and actively initiate or passively wish for some kind of pain in their lives commensurate to what you have experienced,” per Keller. (p. 195) There are multiple ways to accomplish this but it eventually leads to, “Cycles of reaction and retaliation [which] can go on for years. Evil has been done to you — yes. But when you try to get payment through revenge the evil does not disappear. Instead it spreads, and it spreads most tragically of all into you and your own character.” (p. 195)

The second option is to forgive the perpetrator. Keller brings up an excellent point about the results of this choice; “However, to refrain from lashing out at someone when you want to do so with all your being is agony. It is a form of suffering. You not only suffer the original loss of happiness, reputation, and opportunity, but now you forgo the consolation of inflicting the same on them.” (p. 196) The anger may slowly subside, Keller tells of C.S. Lewis realizing, at the moment, he has forgiven someone it took him 30 years to forgive. The cost is emotional but not evil. The decision to forgive, Keller says, “…must be granted before it can be felt, but it does come eventually. It leads to a new peace, a resurrection. It is the only way to stop the spread of the evil.” (p. 196)

But forgiveness is not non-confrontational. It is not taking on a victim mentality nor is it weakness. In fact, it is the only way to truly love the perpetrator. When children do something wrong, it is best to confront them and teach them boundaries out of love. It is the same when you are wronged. “The best way to love them [perpetrator] and the other potential victims around them is to confront them in the hope that they will repent, change, and make things right,” Keller writes. (p. 197)

Keller uses the inspiring example of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, author of the Christian classic The Cost of Discipleship. Bonhoeffer was executed by hanging in a Nazi concentration camp just weeks before the liberation of the camp and then end World War II for his bold resistance to the Nazi dictatorship. Despite his circumstances during the time, he still forgave those he was confronting. “He did not ignore or excuse sin. He resisted it head on, even though it cost him everything… He passed through the agonizing process required to love our enemies, so his resistance to their evildoing was measured and courageous, not venomous and cruel,” Keller says. (p. 198) Of someone who witnessed the execution it was said, “I saw Pastor Bonhoeffer… kneeling on the floor praying fervently to God. I was most deeply moved by the way this lovable man prayed, so devout and so certain that God heard his prayer.” Bonhoeffer lived and died a life that exemplified Christ.

The Forgiveness of God

Keller posits, “Why did Jesus have to die? Couldn’t God just forgive us?” (p. 199) He has already answered the question earlier when he discussed the cost of forgiveness but continues for the sake of teaching, “Forgiveness means bearing the cost instead of making the wrongdoer do it, so you can reach out in love to seek your enemy’s renewal and change… Forgiveness means absorbing the debt of sin yourself.” (p. 199) Jesus is obviously the ultimate example but Stephen also – as he was being stoned – asked God to forgive his killers. In addition, Bonhoeffer did the same. Sin has a cost, and forgiveness means taking on the cost yourself. As Christians we see Jesus as God, and fundamentally believe that He punished Himself for our sin. He understands the cost because, “..this is a God who becomes human and offers his own lifeblood in order to honor moral justice and merciful love so that someday he can destroy all evil without destroying us… Forgiveness is always a form of costly suffering,” writes Keller. (p. 200) For the Christ follower, Jesus paid the ultimate penalty and absorbed the ultimate cost to remove our guilt and alleviate our indebtedness.

“… the death of Christ was necessary to vindicate the righteousness of God in justifying the ungodly by faith. It would be unrighteous to forgive sinners as though their sin were insignificant, when in fact it is an infinite insult against the value of God’s glory. Therefore Jesus bears the curse, which was due to our sin, so that we can be justified and the righteousness of God can be vindicated.” — John Piper

The Second Reason: Real Love Is a Personal Exchange

So, Keller asks, “Why can’t we just concentrate on teaching about how God is a God of love? The answer is that if you take away the Cross you don’t have a God of love.” (p. 201) Agape love, demonstrated by Jesus, requires sacrifice on our part while western society’s overly marketed romantic love does not. Keller states it thus, “All life-changing love toward people with serious needs is a substitutional sacrifice. If you become personally involved with them, in some way, their weaknesses flow toward you as your strengths flow toward them.” (p. 202) This substitution is the very message of the Cross. Keller quotes John Stott, “The essence of sin we human beings substituting ourselves for God, while the essence of salvation is God substituting himself for us. We… put ourselves where only God deserves to be: God… puts himself where we deserve to be.” (p. 202)

The Great Reversal

The message of the Cross – that Jesus died as a substitute for our selfishness and sin – means the outcasts of society have hope in the Cross. And the exalted of this world, without the Cross, have hopelessness. “On the Cross, Christ wins through losing, triumphs through defeat, achieves power through weakness and service, comes to wealth via giving all away,” Keller says. (p. 204) Jesus reversed the pattern of the world and created a new paradigm. Keller explains, “Those who are shaped by the great reversal of the Cross no longer need self justification through money, status, career, or pride of race and class. So the Cross creates a counterculture in which sex, money, and power cease to control us and are used in life-giving and community-building rather than destructive ways.” (p. 204)

“On the Cross neither justice nor mercy loses out — both are fulfilled at once… Jesus identified with the oppressed. Yet we should not try to overcome evil with evil.” Keller says. (pp. 204-05)

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. — Romans 12:21

The Story of the Cross

Keller writes the meaning of the Cross can be found in the movies that move us emotionally. We are enamored with the story of the innocent who substitutes themselves, at great cost of life, money, power or position, for the wrongdoer. The story isn’t new — Jesus did this on the Cross. Where the difference lies is that the truth of Jesus on the Cross should propel us to actual change while the resolutions we develop when watching fiction or human non-fiction are easily forgotten; they inspire nothing more than a passing thought as we return to life.

According to Keller, “The Gospel… is not just a moving fictional story about someone else. It is a true story about us. We are actually in it.” (p. 208)

Seeing the story of the Cross from the outside can only tickle our thoughts but once you realize you are a part of the story, you are changed. Keller finishes, “The fact that Jesus had to die for me humbled me out of my pride. The fact that Jesus was glad to die for me assured me out of my fear.” (p. 208)

Question: Before reading this chapter, had you fully grasped the weight of your sin? What Jesus did on the Cross to purchase your forgiveness? If so, has that understanding led to a true change in you? If not, do you think reading this chapter might be the impetus for such a change?

My response: I think God is revealing both those truths to me bit by bit. Honestly, the reality of it – my sin and what Jesus had to endure to purchase my forgiveness – when I brush up closely to it, leaves me wrecked. I have dropped to my knees, broken over my sin, many times over the last few years. And each time God sweetly and clearly reminds me of His abiding love. It’s amazing how when we surrender our will and our self-righteousness, He in turn gives us an overwhelming sense of His love and mercy. And through each experience He is growing me, stretching me to be a vessel that can contain more and more of His unending love. My grief yields humility and humility yields a greater understanding of His goodness and grace.

I am trusting, day by day, that God is growing me, molding me and shaping me if I willingly and humbly submit to Him as my God. That I take myself – my desires, my selfishness, my fears – off the throne and allow God to rule. And part of that is, and must be, through the revelation my sin and the reality of Jesus’ sacrifice for me.

It behoves every one to ask, whether the Holy Spirit has begun a good work in his heart? Without clear discovery of our guilt and danger, we never shall understand the value of Christ’s salvation; but when brought to know ourselves aright, we begin to see the value of the Redeemer. — Matthew Henry

Good and upright is the Lord;
therefore he instructs sinners in the way.
He leads the humble in what is right,
and teaches the humble his way.
All the paths of the Lord are steadfast love and faithfulness,
for those who keep his covenant and his testimonies.
For your name’s sake, O Lord,
pardon my guilt, for it is great.
Who is the man who fears the Lord?
Him will he instruct in the way that he should choose.
His soul shall abide in well-being,
and his offspring shall inherit the land.
— Psalm 25:8-13

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  1. Like you, Stefanie, the last year has been one of God revealing the utter depravity of my heart. I know that in doing so, He only gives me small glimpses as I could not bear to see what I am truly capable of. But in it all, He is there…so tender and so compassionate…leading me to forgiveness and restoration. Only when I see my desperate need for a Savior do I begin to truly love the only One who could save me. He has drank the full cup of wrath I deserve and yet He doesn’t hold it over my head or even want me to sit in condemnation and guilt…He simply invites me to know and love Him, the Lover of my soul.

    Hallelujah, what a Savior!

  2. Whenever I am reminded of the depth of my sin, I’m brought to my knees. The very thought that Jesus would suffer and die for ME is both devastating and awesome to me. I don’t think I will ever fully grasp the weight of my own sin or the true cost that Jesus paid. This I know: the closer I am to Him, the clearer my vision. The revelation of my pride and selfishness is blinding! My only hope is in Christ. Without Him I am hopeless. And this realization leads me to see others through His eyes. Changing my character is a s.l.o.w. process, and it begins with coming face to face with who I am without Christ and who He is in me. I am left humbled, thankful and in awe.

    I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do – this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. …but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from the body of death? Thanks be to God – through Jesus Christ our Lord! Romans 7:15-25

  3. China Mom says:

    Goodness, great question. I have felt the heaviness of my sin but, usually it is a particular sin I am dealing with. I have on occasion been heavily convicted of just what I sinner I am. But sadly, I do not think I truly grasp just what a sinner I am and how that effects my relationship with Him. Even on those rare occasions when I do feel the weight of all the sin in my life…past and present, I feel it is a fleeting moment and then I pick up where I left off. Sure, a PARTICULAR sin may be resolved in some way but, even then I do not think I truly grasp exactly what happened on the cross.

  4. I have fully grasped the weight of my sin…many times. I have been brought to me knees, weeping over my sin. There are many songs we sing in church that I simply cannot get through because of the overwhelming guilt and/or gratitude that I feel for what Christ has done for me. Even though I realize the consequences of my sin, I still sin. I need to be brought to that realization over and over again, until there is more of HIM and less of me. I loved the passage about the costliness of forgiveness and Deitrich Bonhoeffer in this chapter. It reminded me so much of Corrie Ten Boom (The Hiding Place). If you don’t know her, her family was imprisoned in concentration camps for hiding Jews in their Dutch home. She and her sister were together, but separated from the rest of their family. Her sister didn’t make it. Neither did the rest of her family. Several years after being released, she had an opportunity to meet one of the Nazi guards that was partly responsible for her sister’s death. This guard was asking Corrie for forgiveness. Right at that moment, Corrie had a choice: to follow the action of the Savior and forgive (even though it was costly) or not. She chose to forgive. She relays that the second she shook the man’s hand, she physically felt something. It was like a shock. Painful, but life-giving. The costliness of forgiveness. May I be reminded of this as many times as necessary to become more and more like my Savior.
    Amy

  5. Yes, prior to reading this chapter, I have fully grasped the weight of my sins in my life and what Jesus did on the Cross to purchase my forgiveness. That truth is completely overwhelming at times and something I am so incredibly grateful for. Humbling, to say the least.

    And absolutely–when I came to an understanding of His sacrifice on my behalf, it led to a total change in me and a true transformation in my heart. I learned so much about forgiveness in this chapter. I know I will refer to this chapter from time to time as a reminder of what true forgiveness is all about.

  6. I’m not sure I can ever grasp the weight of my sin. I get long looks at it. I get lots of passing glances. But, how can I really grasp it? How can I grasp what it means to be pure, holy, undefiled as a being so very not those things? How can I possibly understand the sacrifice when I have sacrificed so very little? I’m not trying to be esoteric here. And, I’m not trying to let myself off the hook for the gravity of my sin.

    Still, though, my sin, the complexity of what it means for Christ on the cross, the sheer horror that God had to sacrifice anything, much less his son, levels me often. I think the biggest outcropping of that reality is worship. Unadulterated devotion.

    I think it is a huge act of grace that God saves us from the enormity of our sin, the totality of our mistakes.

    • NiHaoYall says:

      Beautifully said, Erin: “… the sheer horror that God had to sacrifice anything, much less his son, levels me often. I think the biggest outcropping of that reality is worship. Unadulterated devotion.”

  7. I agree with others that at times I really feel the weight of my sin and of His forgiveness and at other times, not so much. I feel like I’m really good at the recognizing sin part, not as good at the accepting forgiveness.

    After each chapter I feel like I’m learning so much and it continues this week. Oftentimes I feel like I’m growing closer to God by baby steps, when I really want to run. This book is helping me start to run. I’m beginning to find joy in turning my life over to Him and letting Him be in charge. There’s been years that I have wanted Him to be in charge, but at the same time, didn’t find joy in it. I’m beginning to bask in that joy. Wow, this book has pointed out how I thought my faith was much stronger than it actually was. Thankfully, it is helping me grow closer to God and giving me the strength I was lacking.

  8. As Stefanie put it, “I don’t think I will ever fully grasp the weight of my own sin or the true cost that Jesus paid”. I think that God in His mercy shields us to some degree, because if I truly knew how evil I would be without God and what Jesus had to suffer for me to save me I would not be able to survive the thought. There was a time when I came to the realization, in part, of how truly wretched I would be without God. It is easy to judge others and think, “how could anyone do such a thing” (and rightly so) when we read in the paper or hear in the news of some tragic occurrence where one human being grotesquely hurts another human being, especially an innocent child, and yet in and of myself I am no better. If God in His love and mercy had not reached out to man we would all be consumed with such evil desire and activity. How thankful I am that Jesus has saved me from that wretched, evil person and has set me free… free to know love, to receive love and to give love. I look forward to the day when I can love perfectly. Until then I will rest in His amazing grace… at least I try to. Thank you Jesus!!

    • NiHaoYall says:

      Can so relate, Londa. I could have written this myself: “I think that God in His mercy shields us to some degree, because if I truly knew how evil I would be without God and what Jesus had to suffer for me to save me I would not be able to survive the thought.”

  9. I feel I had, but after reading this chapter I know I haven’t totally. I also believe that God reveals just what I need, when I need it, bit by bit. It seems so close and then the next day so far. I feel totally enveloped one minute and then it is as if I forget and go back to life. I have been tested many times over the last few years in areas where I thought I was good, but have failed the tests. However each time God has shown me love and mercy and given me just the bit I needed to grow closer (albeit slowly) to him. I feel I get closer by going slow. The picture for me of the fullness of what Jesus did for me I get little by little and this way makes me stronger. I feel I understand it better, appreciate it more, and can grasp it without losing hold. This book, though tough to get (meaning I have to read and re-read sometimes) and convicting has been and I know will continue to be, one of the best steps to understanding and growing closer to God and comes in the exact time in my journey that it should have. God is Good.

  10. I don’t know that I’ve ever thought about the enormity of my sin. I know I wasn’t a “good Christian,” but thought I was a “good person;” and for a long time, I was OK with that. I’ve made countless attempts to “be better,” only to fail. Something has been lacking in me and I know I want a better, closer relationship with God; this study has been and will continue, I pray, to be an impetus to making permanent changes and finding my way to that relationship with God that I want.

    This chapter has had such an impact I can’t describe, but in spite of knowing I have more work to do, it’s good. Once again, I’m filled with gratitude that God hasn’t given up on me.

    I was talking with a colleague about this book & the study; at the time, I told him he was welcome to borrow the book when the study was finished. Now? I think he’s going to have to buy his own. I’m going to be reading & referring to it for a long time to come.

    • NiHaoYall says:

      I can’t tell you how happy I am that you’ve stuck with us through this study, Clara. I know it has been difficult for you on many levels – so awesome to hear how He is revealing His unchanging and unconditional love for you!

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