Vivi’s big day

vivi-0350

Today is a big day for Vivi.She's headed to Boston again.This time with just her Daddy.I had to stay behind. I'm in charge of sick bay and it's many many patients.And it's killin' me not to be there with her.Today is Vivi's long-anticipated appointment with the geneticist.And we're hopeful for some answers.Or even some guesses regarding Vivi's arm deformity.And the possibility of dwarfism.We want answers for her. But more importantly, we want to ascertain that we're doing everything we can to care for her as best we can.And in our hearts, as we fall in love with our … [Read more...]

whazzup with Shep

springbreak-1320

We're off this morning to the grocery store. And then to Home Depot. And possibly stopping at McDonald's, if the kids haven't sent me over the edge by then."Kids, if mommy hasn't lost her marbles by lunchtime, I'll take you to McDonald's! Deal?!?"It's a bribery tactic that really seems to work for me.In the meantime, I thought I'd update you guys on Mr. Shep. And what's new with our littlest fella.Shepherd has been home almost two years. And it's been a bit of a bumpy road for the little guy.Thankfully, he and his daddy have formed a remarkably strong bond. Something … [Read more...]

olivia update

olivia21

I've had a few emails and comments asking about the status of Olivia's file. I contacted Lifeline today and was told this afternoon that she was not currently on hold. If you are interested, please contact Karla Thrasher or Janell Lucas or call Lifeline at 205-967-0811 right away.This little one doesn't have much time to find her family. … [Read more...]

olivia

olivia2

Meet Olivia.She's five years old.And has one week left to find her forever family.And she is just. too. cute. Clearly.Olivia is listed with Lifeline Children's Services. An agency I can personally recommend. Highly.They helped us bring home Sophie and Shepherd. And we love them, a lot.Olivia's special needs are orthopedic issues that affect her arms and her legs.An pediatric orthopedist very recently reviewed her file and had this to say:"This girl will be very functional with her upper extremities. It is surprising how well kids with this condition will adapt to the … [Read more...]

share. and bless others.

We want to hear from you.The proverbial 'we'. As in all of us.At least all of us out there in the special needs adoption blog-o-sphere.And 'you' meaning just that. YOU.If you have a special needs child from China, enjoy writing, and would like to join us over at No Hands But Ours as a regular contributor, please let me know by comment here or email at nohandsbutours@gmail.com.We need a couple of new regular contributors, which would require sharing at least one post a month. The post can be about anything related to parenting your 'special needs' child: before, during … [Read more...]

news from Boston

DSC_1022

Vivi had to be woken from a sweet slumber in order to get to Boston Children's on time.By the time we got in the car, she barely had her eyes open.Thankfully, she had an hour and half ride in which to wake up.As soon as we were checked in and ushered to a room, the kids were weighed, measured and evaluated.As expected, Jude's and Shepherd's feet are fully corrected and doing wonderfully. No changes to their routine of boots and bars at bedtime. Good news!Then it was turn for Vivienne, which required a much more thorough evaluation.Her feet have been well corrected, so … [Read more...]

a long day

DSC_1074

We made it.Whew.We left home at a little after 8:00 this morning. And we barely made it home in time for the boys' bus at 3:45 this afternoon.It was one very long day. But Vivi did great. She is an amazingly easy-going kid. She loved almost everything about the hospital, most of all the bubble tubes that dotted the waiting area.Only thing she didn't like so much was holding still for the 927 x-rays the doctor ordered. We sang a lot of the ABC song.We were quite impressed by our new orthopedist. He answered many of our questions about Vivi. He gave us some good news. … [Read more...]

headed to Boston

We're off to Boston this morning for an appointment with the kiddos at Boston's Children. It will be a follow up for Jude and Shepherd, as their clubfoot has been corrected and they only require twice yearly visits. But for Vivi, this will be her first visit with an orthopedist to see how her little tootsies are doing.We also expect to be referred out for some genetic testing. And, not gonna lie, I'm a little bit nervous. I've fallen so in love with my sweet girl, honestly whatever her special needs are, I know it's going to be okay. For me.I am just nervous for her.I … [Read more...]

gorgeous

DSC_0796

Yesterday was Isabelle's cardiac check up.In case you're new, or curious, Isabelle came home from China in May 2005 at 11 months.With a half-dollar sized hole in her heart.She underwent a very successful open heart surgery when she was 18 months old.And she's been one healthy little booger ever since.In the spring after her surgery, she was released from cardiac care. Her surgeon simply felt her repair and recovery went well enough to justify her no longer being under the care of a cardiologist.But, since our move, our new insurance provider wanted to have Isabelle … [Read more...]

Sunday Snapshot: Vivienne

DSC_0589

Ahhh, Vivienne.It wasn't long ago I had some very real worries about this little one joining our family.And when I said I was scared, I really meant it.But now, well... just look at her.Scared?Me?Of her?Obviously, I had too much time on my hands.Vivienne is truly delightful.And I have fallen for her in the worst way.She's beautiful.She's engaging.She's silly.She's jiggly.That might be one of my favorite things about her. After enduring the feeding issues of two *unnamed* toothpick-like children in our home, it's surprisingly wonderful to have a child with an … [Read more...]