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My baby turns 17


We celebrated Tori’s birthday over the weekend with a big feast, all Tori’s favorite dishes. Thankfully she’s quite a cook and happily made most of it herself. But on her actual birthday, August 16th, we had a mini celebration with mini cakes for everyone. The boys loved decorating theirs with frosting and sprinkles and the girls loved eating theirs 🙂

I can’t believe my girl is getting so grown up. And what a wonderful young woman she is. She is taking a heavy course load this year, her senior year, AP and honors classes, makes me glad I’m not in high school anymore! She wants to be a pediatrician. She has even talked about wanting to become a surgeon so she can go on mission trips to China to help children in orphanages lead a more healthy life. What an impact the adoption of Sophie and Isabelle have had on her 🙂

She is the best big sister, loves playing with the kids and even hangs out with us most ‘family fun nights’ to watch movies and eat popcorn. When she was 12, 13 and 14, I kept waiting for the ‘other shoe to drop’. I imagined miserable teen years of angry exchanges and stony silences. Not that we haven’t weathered a few storms and hurt feelings.

But when Tori was about 14, we came to an amazing understanding and our relationship has been awesome since then. I had to learn to not try and control her, something I was doing without even realizing it. I had to let go of the reins (that I didn’t really have anyway) and turn her over to the loving care of her heavenly Father.

I’m just so crazy about her, I think I’ll just stay in denial a while about the fact that she’ll be going off to college next year … where does the time go?

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08.22.06 · Asher, celebrations, Dalton, Victoria, Zach 3

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  1. Adam and Cynthia Farley says

    August 22, 2006 at 5:42 PM

    I hate to tell you momma, but your baby isn’t a baby anymore – she is an absolutely beautiful young woman! And her amazing strength and her want to help humanity comes from her momma!!!! You should be very proud!

    Cynthia

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  2. Patricia/NYC says

    August 23, 2006 at 2:19 AM

    Happy Birthday, Tori!
    Stefanie, with you as her momma, & the awesome family that you have, I am so not surprised that she is such a wonderful young lady!

    HUGS…
    Patricia/NYC

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  3. Denise says

    August 23, 2006 at 4:55 PM

    A very happy birthday to Tori – we are so blessed to have her as a part of our family. Stefanie, you have every right to be a proud mamma, she’s beautiful inside and out!
    Love to All,
    Brian, Denise, Noah & Kade

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I'm Stefanie. Wife to one, mom to 13. Occasional blogger and t-shirt maker. Wannabe photographer and exerciser. Constant grace-needer and orphan advocator. more
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